Dear Marie:
I
just inherited my mother’s 9 year old poodle, “Misty”. My mother moved into a senior citizens’
apartment facility and they have a strict no-pets rule. “Misty” was very pampered by my mother and
is having a difficult time adjusting to her new surroundings. My biggest concern is that she refuses to
eat. I have tried just about everything
to get her to take in food. I kneel
down next to her and pet her by her bowl.
I try to hand feed her. I even
pretend to eat the food myself to show her how good it is. Nothing is working. What should I do?
Angela,
Fullerton
Dear
Angela,
Misty
is a lucky dog to have been taken in by an individual as caring as you. She had a loving home with your mother, and
is obviously going through serious separation anxiety at this point in
time. Her new surroundings are also a
very nerve wracking change in her life and this combination of stress has
understandably led to her loss of appetite.
However, with your love and encouragement, this will pass.
There
are a few things that you should do to make this transition easier. First, give Misty a quiet, private area in
your home with her own bed. She will
need an area that is not subject to frequent disrupting activities; so make
sure this is not a child’s bedroom or the corner of a busy family room. Misty will use this area frequently at
first, but as time goes on, she will feel more and more comfortable
participating in family activities throughout the house.
Next,
pick out a secluded feeding area. Dogs
have a natural fear of competition for food.
They need to eat where they know they can finish a meal safely. You should also know that your presence, no
matter how benign you feel your presence is, creates a certain amount of fear
or discomfort when it is associated with feeding time. Go into another room while Misty is
eating. Let her know that she is alone
so that she can dine comfortably.
Establish
a feeding schedule and stick to it.
Dogs need routines in their lives.
It makes them feel more secure, and at this point, security is the main
issue for Misty. Usually, a twice a day
feeding schedule is best. Furthermore,
until Misty becomes a good eater, refrain from tasty in-between meal
snacks. As with children, this will
spoil her appetite!
To
re-enforce the feeding schedule, remove Misty’s food dish twenty minutes after
putting it down. Your pet will quickly
learn that she is fed once in the morning and once in the evening and that if
she doesn’t eat, there will be no more opportunities until the next scheduled
feeding time. If she misses one or two
meals before she figures out the routine, she will be fine. However, if she still refuses to eat, try
mixing her food with 1/4 cup chicken broth.
Reduce the amount of broth each day until you no longer need it.